Most men love getting blow jobs for a lot of different reasons. As a woman, it is important that you understand what is expected if you are heading down there with your mouth to avoid discomfort and accidents.
Below are the six things you should keep in mind.
1. Get comfortable: Before beginning the BJ process, make sure you get in a comfortable position of your choosing. Since you will be the one doing the ‘job’, your comfort is important. You can go on your knees while he stands/sits. You can have him lie down while you work or you can even lie down yourself and have him thrust in your mouth, although this position does not give you any control. The point is, make sure you are able to keep that position for about five to ten minutes depending on what you both prefer. Changing positions mid-work can affect his pleasure.
2. More saliva: When it comes to blow job, you can never have enough saliva. If you feel your mouth is dry, then have a glass of water before you begin to keep things wet and lubricated in your mouth. Seriously, the more saliva, the better. Have you ever seen porn stars go at it?
3. Enjoy the process: If you hate giving blow jobs, it’s best you don’t pretend because a man always knows when you do not enjoy it. Get in the moment. You are giving your man one of the ultimate sexual pleasures. You are the naughty sex kitten capable of taking him to the peak of pleasure, so enjoy the ride too. Moan, slurp and suck like you are having a blast.
4. No teeth: No, not even a little bit. During the blow job party, your teeth is not welcome. Sheath them as you work. Let your mouth and tongue get busy.
5. Do not overdo things: You do not have to be a porn star for your man to enjoy getting head from you, so do not try to deep-throat or try other stunts if you cannot handle it. You are a sex kitten not a sex slave. If you have gag reflexes and cannot take all of him in, you can wrap a hand or two around the base of the penis and cover the rest with your mouth. As long as things are well lubricated, he will enjoy it without you having to overdo things. Remember, you need to enjoy the process too. 6. Have the ‘swallow’ or ‘no swallow’ agreement: If you intend to blow him until he cums, then you both need to agree on whether or not you will swallow. Ultimately, that decision is yours. If you choose not to, tell him to give you a signal when he is almost there, like a tap on the shoulder or something so you can take your mouth off. If you do choose to take it in your mouth but not swallow, have a wipe, tissue or cloth nearby to spit into. If you do choose to swallow (because you’re bad like that) then kudos. Just make sure you both know what is expected so there will be no surprises, this can ruin things.
